The Avocad's 1st Anniversary

Today marks the first of what I know will be many wedding anniversaries for us. How do I know? Because we aren't going to make it happen. We aren't soul mates. We were never "meant to be". We chose this, and we are going to continue to choose to make it work for the rest of our lives and beyond.

I've written a lot about our wedding, 29 posts to be exact. If you want a detailed summary of the entire experience visit my last post about the wedding experience and scroll down to see a list of links to all of my recap posts.

For this anniversary post I went through a few thousand photos (literally) and chose 5 that describe some of my favorite moments of the day.

I can remember the way I felt at our "first look" so clearly. The endowment ceremony and time together in the celestial room the day before had been so calming. Everything felt so right, and we couldn't stop smiling at each other. I was so sure I wanted to be with him forever.

This was moments after we walked out of the temple as husband and wife. Right behind the camera stood a ring of our closest family and friends, clapping and cheering and waiting to come forward to hug us. We really did it! We were married!

I hadn't placed a lot of importance on making sure we got a classic temple shot, but now I'm so glad we did. A year later and the scaffolding on the spire doesn't bother me at all. Pretty golden Moroni can still be seen and it's truly what is inside that matters. Our sealing in the temple means absolutely everything to us. It gives us an eternal perspective when marriage is hard. It's what will keep us from ever giving up.

The first dance was just one of the many my new husband showed me how much he cared about me, and what he was willing to do to make me happy. He took some lessons with me, practiced with me, and on our wedding day he got up and performed in front of everyone. One year later and he still continues to make sacrifices for me and for our marriage.

I think this photo describes the way we approached our marriage in the beginning. We jumped in head first, giving it everything we had and learning a few tough lessons along the way. I love my husband ten times more today than I did that night, and I expect that love to grow exponentially each year. When we welcome the baby into our lives next April we're going to have to work even harder to keep our marriage strong, but I think we're up for the challenge.

I chose him. He chose me. We'll continue to choose each other, eternally.